If we love each other, why wait until marriage?

If you truly love each other, you will wait until marriage! Because you want to preserve one another in purity for the day when you can say without reservation to each other; I am yours and your mine. Without reservation, because you have pledged to each other, before God’s church and in sight of men that you accept full responsibility for one another. That moment is called marriage. To insist on union before that moment is to ask for the full privilege without accepting the total responsibility. This is sinful, selfish and unloving.

True love will wait because in God’s design, sexual union is the culmination (not the initiation) of true love, the supreme act of mutual self giving. It is the out ward, physical expression of a deeper spiritual union between two persons “and the two shall become one”.

What is Love?

LOVE is a mutual feeling of care, affection, respect and longing for somebody. It does not limit itself to a life time partner. Love can be directed to GOD, country, fellow men, partner and one self. If we aim true love for God and our neighbor, we seed the queen of all virtues. If we direct a working love to our country and fellow men, we grow the nationalism of all heroes. Love for others is a heritage of fidelity while love for one self is valuing the life given to us.

When we journey for love, we journey with a light baggage and sow love to others whom we encounter on the paths of that journey, for love will never be a true love when it is not manifested. Love does not frown nor ask in return, instead it smiles.

Love for a partner is not limited to chaining them tight to our waists or suffocating them with our selfish wishes of pleasure, faithfulness, honesty, respect, care and selflessness will qualify the love that we have for our partners. This journey for love will be truly admirable if we witness both the light and dark faces of life.

Journey for love should not be made in dark alleys, unlighted rooms and deserted places. It should be manifested openly so that your family and society can witness your love and remind you of your faithfulness for one another in that commitment.

Journey for love is not merely about sex. It is about sacrifice and selflessness. We can share love to our partners not only through sexual intercourse, but through sharing them our time, attention, care and concern.

FRIENDSHIP

FRIENDSHIP can be defined in many ways. It maybe a simple word, but a lot can be told. Through the history of mankind, we have made a lot of enemies in countless wars and battles, but there were friends who always stood beside us.

FRIENDSHIP is a bond of love that we form with a comrade in a very special way. This will tie us through eternity. Journeys through life can never be lovely unless we find worthy friends along the way. Friends who will guide us through the path, light us up of their wisdom, cheer us when we are sad, help us stand out when we are down, and share all the happiness that burst with in our hearts.

It’s a true joy to meet a selfless friend who will give up anything and everything for a friend. When you find that friend never let him go! Love, cherish and keep all his memories deep inside your heart because when you lose your friend it’s very hard to replace him.

Our friend is our other half. We will never be complete as a person with out a friend beside us through thick and thin. Our bodies are mortal and fragile, but our friendship is a spiritual bond that must not be tarnished. We shall exert our full efforts to prevent our friendship from failing.

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Someone like You

You’re an angel sent from up above

To care for me and make me laugh

You’re sweet smile which I really love

Tell my heartbeat not to stop

I don’t know how to thank you

For every small thing that you do

‘Coz when ever I feel blue

You’re there to help me through

 I’ll always keep you in my heart

‘Coz you’ve done a big part of my life

I’ll never forget the way you smile

The way you look and the way you cry

It’s hard to find someone like you

My lovable someone who is always true

I love the way you like me too

And I’ll always be here beside you

Because of you

I  really don’t know why

When I’m with you ,time seems to fly

It make me feel so high

Like a bird flying in the sky

Whenever I’m with you

You made me feel n blue

You always bring wonderful hue

That brings happiness out of the blue

Whenever darkness comes into my life

You’re always there showing me the light

You’re always there to reminds me to do what’s right

You’re there supporting me in my toughest fight

You’re the one I can count on

The one whom I can rely on

The one whom I can lean on

On whatever life’s situation

You never fail to be always there

When I need you , you always care,

When I need something,you always share,

You are always there over and over

That is why I  want to take this  opportunity

To thank you for being a part of me

For giving me irreplaceable glee

For bringing the best life more than I expected it to be.

Teenage Life

Teenage life is the most adventurous and enjoyable 
stage in life of a person.Many things happen in this stage like having crushes to your classmate or schoolmate forming a group called”barkadas”and an all-day-all-night gimmick.

A   typical   teenager is not  always in the house instead, they outside having fun with  their pals, chit-chatting any topics  under the sun and sometimes talking about their roller coaster love life. Happiness can be seen on a typical  teenager.

There are times that some teenager spends their teen age life with themselves, like he|she does not want  any body to enter in his|her world . All he|she wanted is to be alone ,but being alone is not the hindrance in achieving total happiness. It depends on how you manage yourself and how you make your life a memorable one. Happiness does not mean you are totally complete or all the lavish things are on your hands but the true meaning of happiness is that how you make life worthwhile.

“So for those teenagers there” just enjoy your life of being a teenager,don,t miss the opportunities,do what you want to make your life as a memorable one.

My Secret Love

I have these thought,deep inside
Thoughts that I have to hide
I don't recognize if you sense that way too
And I don't know what to do

When we're together, I feel anxious and uneasy
When you're around I feel so right and precise
I day dream about what we can do
And every part of the things we can pursue

I desire just to feel your touch
And when you leave I miss you so much
I want to feel your lips against mine
And I'll just wait 'til it's' time

So for now I'll be in love with you from a far
One day I'll converse how special you are
So until then I will restrain this rush
For my secret love is my crush.